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     I remember reading a book several years ago entitled, "When bad things happen to good people."
    No one is immune to the hardships and tragedies of life.
    I have always been amazed when I read stories of people who seem to go from one tragedy to another and even more amazed at the way they seem to overcome those obstacles of life that would drive most of us into a deep depression.
    That's why that I have a hard time understanding some people, who have been spared from life's disparaging times and yet, they seem to always find fault with those they come in contact with on a daily basis.
    While it is an old saying, there are those who do turn the lemons of life into lemonade. Then there are those who choose to suck on their lemon and their facial expressions certainly show it.
    I guess that's why most of us find it easy to fall in love with those who have a bubbly attitude, sweet smile, and positive outlook on life. They brighten up a room when they walk in and they certainly leave a deep impression in our hearts.
    I am a collector of simple reminders or saying, if you please, that seem to say it all in a short phrase.
    So for those of you who are going through those hiccups of life, perhaps one or two of my short sayings will be encouraging to you.
    1. If you worry, you didn't pray. If you pray, don't worry.
    2. Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.
    3. Do the math! Count your blessings.
    4. Silence is often misinterpreted, but never misquoted.
    5. Laugh every day, it's like inner jogging.
    6. Growing old is inevitable, growing up is optional.
    7. There is no key to happiness. The door is always open.
    8. A grudge is a heavy thing to carry.
    9. He who dies with the most toys is still dead.
   10. We do not remember the days, but moments. Life moves too fast, so enjoy your precious moments with those that you love.
   11. Nothing is real to you until you experience it, otherwise it's just hearsay.
   12. It's all right to sit on your pity pot every now and again. Just be sure to flush when you are done.
   13. Surviving and living your life successfully requires courage. The goals and dreams you're seeking require courage and risk-taking. Learn from the turtle. It only makes progress when it sticks out its neck.
   14. Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
   15. Your words of kindness and encouragement will be remembered much longer than any gift that you might have given.
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